Thomas Carroll Coleman, Sr. 1918–2012

Thomas Carroll Coleman, Sr. 1979

My grand­fa­ther, Car­roll Cole­man, died this after­noon in hos­pice in Naples, FL. With is wife, Joan, and two of his chil­dren, Kath­leen and James him, he passed peace­ful­ly after a short decline with pneumonia.

His 94 years were a life spent over­com­ing much to achieve the Amer­i­can dream. Grow­ing up dur­ing the Great Depres­sion in Arkansas, he served in the US Army as an x‑ray tech­ni­cian and worked part­ly on farms until he even­tu­al­ly found work in trav­el­ling sales. He mar­ried his sweet­heart, Ruth (my grand­moth­er), and made a career in sales, pur­chas­ing, and man­age­ment with region­al depart­ment stores. After los­ing my grand­moth­er in June of 2001, he lat­er relo­cat­ed to South­west Flori­da where he met Joan, with whom he spent many hap­py years.

There will sure­ly be a more com­plete and accu­rate list of facts of his life to come. But what that brief descrip­tion fails to cap­ture was the remark­able per­son­al­i­ty and intel­li­gence of a man who was the def­i­n­i­tion of a fam­i­ly patri­arch. A man who trea­sured his fam­i­ly and loved to expe­ri­ence life. His opti­mism and wis­dom were an inspi­ra­tion. To me, he was the epit­o­me of style, class, and intel­li­gence. I looked up to him and any time we were togeth­er I saw every­one else doing just the same.

He had a rich life and was rel­a­tive­ly well for almost the total of his years. He left peace­ful­ly and with loved ones near­by. I choose to think he is reunit­ed with Ruth and at rest.

I am tru­ly grate­ful for this remark­able man and all that he did for his family.

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By Jason Coleman

Structural engineer and technical content manager Bentley Systems by day. Geeky father and husband all the rest of time.

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